At the very least you may be spared confusion when your new partner begins to act in the very way he/she initially warned you and others to avoid.
I have listed 4 common contexts for projection and how the projection works in each context. I want a drama free life” – Many individuals who write this on their profiles have had more than one relationship in which drama was a significant factor.
No players need apply” – This one is okay…if it’s true. ” I get it if you’re in your 20's or 30’s, but after that it starts to look like a projection: “I don’t want a player, but I would not rule out someone over 40 who’s never been married.” Hmmm. Of course there are exceptions such as an interfering illness that might prohibit someone from marrying. When someone emphasizes the need for a good communicator in their profile they no doubt have had a negative experience with at least one poor communicator.
But beware the person who simultaneously writes on their profile that they prefer: divorced, married, or never married mates. But it’s also possible that the complainer might not be such a good listener.
They may even falsely perceive drama when it does not actually exist thereby manufacturing it on their own.
In this case they may be proficient at “making a mountain out of a mole hill.” Many have been raised in chaotic homes and replicate it in real time. 3.“You must be a good communicator” – Okay, I can see this one also.
2.“I’m only interested in a serious, long-term relationship leading to marriage. If you’re only interested in a serious long-term relationship leading to marriage, why solicit the “never married? But I have found that most of the couples I have treated are not too bad at communicating; they just don’t like what’s being communicated.
There are several legitimate dating sites available to prospective suitors on the Internet. But I suspect these rates are primarily influenced by the large number of site participants and are not necessarily proportionate.
And while these vehicles may somewhat sap the romance out of finding one’s soul mate, they remain a convenient necessity in today’s busy, fast-paced society (See Psychology Today.com: “The Pros and Cons of Online Dating: Is Online Dating Killing Romance? What I have found is that many people unknowingly replicate prior traumatic marriages, and serial date the same type of person only to ensure failure and frustration.
Acting applicants who have submitted their application should self-schedule their audition using the online application process.
New Haven dates are subject to change January 12, 13, 14, 19, 20, 21, 26, 27, 28In New Haven, auditions are scheduled at the School of Drama, 149 York Street, New Haven, CT 06511.